Posted here a few days ago and the site immediately crashed! I just wanted to display some of my ignorance regarding posting on forums and ask, "Where should I post this?" I'm aware if I goof the moderator will correct me, but I'm trying to save her/him the trouble - so let me trouble you instead.

I am reading the books and learning about Aquaponics and am trying to engender some enthusiasm for such a project with my wife. I am actively considering and planning such a project. She's putting her foot down. She worries that I'll wreck her house; make it wet and stinky, or have escaped worms crawling about. My question: Is the project doomed?